Lying
Lying can be a form of aggression
Harmful lies are when people lie to hurt someone, get away with things, or get things they donât deserve
Sometimes, people lie so they donât hurt someoneâs feelings
Great Options
Set the rule - âIn our family, we tell the truthâ
Think about others - âHow would it make you feel if someone told a lie about you?â
Teach why - âLying is bad for relationshipsâ or âLying can prevent people from solving problems.â
Set future expectations - âIn the future, I will be disappointed if you lie about what happened.â
Later, give praise - âI really appreciate you being honest about breaking the lamp.â
Good Options After Others Have Been Tried
Change your daily schedule
Time-out or take away a privilege
Not Recommended
Try to catch your child lying